Marriage breakup is the most disliked act in Islam. If the marriage is not working out then divorce is the option in Islam to separate. You can take a break to think and decide if you want to continue with a relationship or if divorce is the better option.
Several reasons result in weak relationships. What should you do when verbal communication ends and being alone seems like the only remedy?
How can married couples communicate effectively during a marriage breakup without further problems whether it was an arranged marriage or you met each other through one of the marriage apps?
Take a break from the relationship before going for the divorce option. Taking a break from a relationship is emotionally difficult and stressful but sometimes feel like a right decision for understanding and clarity.
Limiting contact with a partner during a marriage break gives a married couple time to realize their mistakes. This may help resolve relationship issues and problems in the future.
Let’s look at some tips for communicating effectively during a marriage break without losing regard and respect.
Be Humble and Open
If you are certain that you need a break, be humble and open to your partner about what you are going through and why you want to have space for yourself.
Tell humbly all the problems you are facing with your partner that are causing frustration, and stress, and making the relationship worse.
Express humbly and openly to your partner if you think your partner or their family does not appreciate you for everything you are doing for them. It will be a good idea if you decide with a mutual understanding about how long the break should be and then discuss it again after some time.
Talk During a Break
Give yourself time and space during the break and try not to communicate and talk during the break unless you have children and need to communicate about them and their care. Once you decide then consider taking a complete break. It may help couples to go through their behavior with each other. You can talk about personal things when you decide to be together again.
Married couples can judge and compare their happiness with their current situation and satisfaction and how satisfied and happy they will be in the future with their partner.
If you contact and talk to your partner, a break won’t be effective and partners won’t realize where and what they are doing wrong in their relationship.
Talk with Relatives and Friends
Stay social and speak to friends and relatives you trust. This may help you to stay calm and relaxed during the marriage break. Sincere relatives and friends may be able to advise you to resolve and defuse the situation.
Correct your Mistakes
During the marriage break, think if you were not fair with your partner at some point which led to a break. Try your best to change yourself to build a strong foundation for a successful married life. For example your behavior to your partner or partner’s family.
Share your Feelings
Don’t hesitate to share your feelings with someone you trust like your parents, brother, or sister.
Don’t Share Personal Life on Social Media
Remember not to share and talk about your married life on social media. It will make the situation worse. Try to stay off of any social media platform to avoid further conflicts with your partner.
Research shows that you will feel better and less anxious if you don’t talk about your personal life on social media.
Be Patient and Wait
Be patient and give yourself enough time before you are ready to communicate with your partner again. Once you decide, arrange a time with your partner to meet up again.
Discuss and agree on minimum expectations with mutual understanding for a happy married relationship.
Family Support and Activities
Start doing family activities like walking, going to see relatives, cooking favorite foods, etc to bring married life back to normal. This will enhance the couple’s mood and the living environment will be pleasant. Meet with supportive friends and family, this can help to banish negative thoughts and feelings.
A marriage break is not the end of a relationship. It’s the time you need to decide whether you want to go back to your partner and start a new marriage journey with respect or you want a separation.
Clear communication during a marriage break can change and affect the rest of your life. Ensure to take time and try to make decisions with mutual understanding and respect boundaries.
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